Is your relationship in a rut? Does your relationship feel stagnant? It’s not that you don’t love each other anymore. The flame just seems to have dimmed a little! Well, let me say that you are not alone. Many couples go through a rough patch. Many times, people either stick it out or separate. I would like to present another option, a proactive option, which I have termed Couple Cleansing.
Typically, I like to do some type of cleansing once a season just to keep my juices flowing. My love and I usually do our cleanses together because we have found that it will assist in getting the negative, stagnant energy out of our system and out of our relationship. For Oneness and myself, we decided to cleanse this season for specific spiritual reasons. For example, we will be celebrating our 6 year together for the Spring Equinox and want to revitalize our relationship. Coincidentally, (we don’t believe in coincidences) we also experienced one of the most strenuous times as a couple and individually. So as we transition to our next stage of life, we are partaking in a couples cleansing.
Benefits of Couples Cleansing
1. It will eliminate the toxicity in the relationship. Just like when you detox to eliminate the toxins out of your system, so will the toxins dispel in your relationship. The cleansing process is holistic in nature. This means it affects the body, mind and spirit. The body is effected by the foods that are eliminated. This causes the mind to naturally want to cleanse from negative thought processes. This will cause spirit to become more active in the flow of your life. Be prepared to have to confront your mental and emotional baggage. This is a great time to discuss your relationship, the strengths, weaknesses, challenges, obstacles and the direction to move in. Open and honest communication is essential. Remember to speak kindly to each other (See our article Anger: the good, the bad and the peaceful).
2. Cleansing together can be a very intimate affair. Cleansing together correlates to working out together. It creates an environment that promotes loving support of one another. Many times, especially in long term relationships, people become complacent. They either do not acknowledge the achievements of their spouse or in some cases completely disregards them. This usually leads to complete disrespect. However, during couples cleansing, we actively acknowledge the obstacles that we are facing and work together to overcome them. To have your own personal cheering squad as you each overcome your difficult challenges will reignite the spark between you.
3. Couples Cleansing will restore the ebb and flow of positivity. Your newly found support of one another will foster encouragement. The encouragement will allow you both to nurture each other’s souls. The energy between you is restored and flowing. Your spirits are able to connect on a higher frequency. It also allows for true healing to take place between you. Healing is constantly needed. By the end of the end of the cleanse, our clients report a renewal of energy and a deeper connection.
For our clients, we suggest a minimum cleanse of 14- 21 days. If both people participate fully in the cleanse, they will experience a rejuvenated energy between them. Cleanses are so much more than dietary, they are equipped to really rejuvenate you and restore the flame between you. Try it for yourself! Peace & Love!